Let's talk about how using the secret will get you whatever you want in life. It's actually not that complex of an issue. You can have whatever you want in life and there's a very simple formula that you have to follow. I'm going to discuss that formula in detail.
Have you ever done something for somebody that you don't do for yourself? It's really weird, right? We treat other people better than we treat ourselves. We treat other people how we want to be treated. We don't treat ourselves that way. And we do this in a lot of ways. We do this with half-assing our work.
We do this with not eating well. We do this with our meditation or hypnosis. We do the things for other people that we know we should do with ourselves, but then we don't do them for ourselves. It creates this really weird self esteem issue where we don't realize how great we are.
You think you're too fat. You think you're too dumb. You think you're not good with numbers? You think you're unlovable. You think you're not that smart. You think you're not that good looking. You think you're just overall, not that capable. You just can't do it. You just can't figure it out. There's no way you're just not as good as them, right?
We beat ourselves up sometimes in our head, but sometimes just with our actions, by not doing the things for ourselves that we'll do for other people. The most important relationship that you'll ever have as a relationship is with yourself. Most people neglect this and nobody thinks it eally matters. Why is your relationship with yourself so important? Think about it. You're building a self image with every single action that you take all day long. And so if you have a poor relationship with yourself with your thoughts, food, and all the people you keep in your life who are toxic, how do you expect to attract love and abundance?
When you don't take care of the relationship you have with yourself, what happens is you're really saying "I'm not worthy of love. I'm not worthy of abundance. I'm not worthy of success. I'm not worthy of what I want. And Wayne Dyer says, you don't get what you want. You get what you are. What are you?
You are a vibrational frequency pattern. So based off of the vibrational frequency pattern that you emit, you attract things that match that frequency pattern. You don't get what you want. You get what you are. Your energy that you emit to the universe and to other people into the world at large, that is determined quite simply by your self image. Your self image sets up an overall frequency pattern.
That frequency pattern determines what you do and do not get, attract, and have in your life. Ask yourself, what would it look like If I got used to using the secret and treated myself the way that I treat other people? What would it look like If you started to get in better shape and you lost some of that weight? What would it look like? If you started to spend your Fridays and Saturdays working on that additional source of income instead of at the bar, what would it look like? If you started to take care of yourself better, what would it look like?
You started to talk to yourself better and you started to write lists of what you're grateful for every day. What would it look like if you started to meditate every day? What would it look like If you started to say yes to your desires and dreams and goals? what would it look like? If you started going like this? Just hold it. I just drove back, did a road trip because I was visiting my wife's family. I just drove like this.
That was like a real gift. That again, I smile at other people. Isn't that weird. Like sometimes even when people are depressed, they'll never smile. But then they'll go out to a store and they'll smile at everybody. Why don't they do it for themselves? So as we come to the end of this video, ask yourself, how can you show up for yourself more? What are the ways you were not showing up for yourself?
What are the ways you can be a better friend to yourself? By being a good friend to yourself your confidence will raise up. When you build more confidence, you say no to all the crappy things in your life. And when you say no to all the crappy things in your life and the crappy ways you show up for yourself, you say yes to your ultimate destiny. You have a destiny beyond what you can imagine.
By you degrading yourself, by you not building yourself up, you're not only doing a disservice to yourself, but to everyone around you. You have the power to be using the secret every time you start to get low on yourself. You're a child of God. You're one with the universe, you are a divine being. You have the universe at your side, the miracle working presence of life is always available to you.
Go love yourself and smile for 10 second in the mirror. Remind yourself of all these truths. Thank you so much for being apart of this amazing community.
Remember.
Miracles are normal.
Jake
