How To Be Happy Again And Attract True Love

 I was going to talk about some of the most powerful steps on how to be happy again and attract true love, to Attract a Specific Person Into Your Life and attract the ideal relationship in your life, to stop feeling like maybe it's alluding you or you're chasing it, or maybe you're wondering that does it even exist anymore, or maybe you've even made up your mind that it doesn't exist. And you're just going to do it on your own, or you set a lower standard for yourself.  I just want you to have an open mind because I've felt a lot of those feelings and a lot of those emotions. And I did these very powerful steps to attract my ideal relationship. My soulmate, her name ended up being Ashley, and we ended up having a baby together. And, you know, to be honest, it's better than I ever imagined. And at the time I really didn't even think it was that possible. And so in this blog, I'm going to help you do that exact same thing. So have an absolutely great day and let's dive right into this post.

Do You Still Believe In True Love? 

So I was thinking like, what is it that stops most people from ever attracting their soulmate or their ideal relationship into their lives? And if you think about it, what happens is we get so used to it, not existing that we get stuck in the familiar. And we convince ourselves that the ideal person might not be out there. Then as a result, we settle right. Then we lower our standard. Or we chase a relationship with someone that isn't the right person or we're in a relationship. And you know, it's not exactly what we dream of and you've tried to work on it. It's just not the right one, but we stay in it because what if this is the best that's out there and then I'm totally alone. And it's an understandable way to look at it. But what we have to ask ourselves is can I create the space in my life for the ideal person to come in?

Have You Settled Based On Assumptions?

Now that means if we're in one right now that isn't ideal. And there seems to be no budge, but we've just set lower standards because we've said, ah, this idea of true love and fairy tale type of stuff, none of that exists, or the flip side is the universe will do it for you. Which happened to me, the person that I met before my wife, Ashley, I was chasing this thing. When I really look back on it, I was attracted to them physically. There was emotional and spiritual gaps that the two of us had that were obvious red flags that we weren't going to work, but I just ignored them. And then she ended up breaking up with me and the universe just did it to me. So you might be in one of those two camps, or you might be in the camp. That's just, you've been alone. You're like, they're not even out there to begin with. I've done the dating apps. I've done the dates. I've tried. I've been in a bunch of relationships and you know, it's just never been the right one. So what happens out of that is we develop an assumption about reality that the right person probably isn't even out there. And once we develop that assumption about reality, that not only defines our love life, it actually creates our love life.

Your True Love Already Exists: Feel their Energy! 

So I want to ask you a question. Do you know that the right person is already out there for you? I don't know where they live. I mean, they might be in Canada. They might be in China. They might be in Peru. They might be in California or New York. They might actually not even be originally speaking the same language as you. They may speak the same language, but there may be their second language, or maybe you're going to meet them in the grocery store next week. And it's just going to happen. And you're going to turn your head and you're going to feel it. And you're going to, oh my God, that's the one. 

Love Is Pure Energy.... Its Everywhere! 

So my question is, what does it feel like to know that they actually already exist? Because if God is love and God has everything, it's in everything, whatever you want to call it. Alan Watts says, you can't get wet by the word water. Let's call it God and say, God synonymous with love, but we could call it God, we call it spirit. We call it universe. We could call it just consciousness, right? And we could speak for more scientific quantum physics perspective, call it whatever you want. We are talking about how to be happy again right? But this originating substance of the universe, I would say it's pure love. So that means every single cell of your body, all 100 trillion cells in your hands, in your face, in your feet. All of those, the core frequency pattern of them is love.

If God is love and it's manifested in everything, just rationally speaking, your destiny is love. Drop this story and this idea that you're not meant for it, or you're not worthy of it, or you're not good enough for it where love is pain or love is too hard where it's not out there for you because of something you did, or because of something somebody said, or some bad memories, maybe something a parent did or something an ex said to your dad. You thinking that either it's not out there, you're not deserving or you're not worthy, or it's not possible. Just drop that idea and remember who you are. This is key on how to be happy again and attract true love. 

Our love, you come from love and your destiny is love. All of that being said, so trust me, they're out there, but you've got to step into this camp. If you want to know how to be happy again, you have to suspend your disbelief that you've had and create the space of knowing that they are there.  If you knew that they were coming on August 7th or on December 11th, you knew you were going to see them in the grocery store when you went to Mexico or when you were in California. And it was just going to happen while you were ordering your coffee or your donut. You're just going to turn around and they're going to be right there. You knew it was going to happen in this beautiful, powerful, mysterious way. How would you feel? 

How To Be Happy Again?  Good Vibrations! 

Gosh, you'd feel great. You'd have a deeper breath. Wouldn't feel as constricted would you? You'd be like, yes, finally. I know it. Maybe you're too, I guess, would be a little bit out there bigger. You wouldn't be worrying. Thats why I quit worrying. You wouldn't be fretting and you wouldn't be trying to figure it all out and trying to control the universe and trying to control the infinite source of love and tell it what to do. You already know that it's here and you already know that it's. And when you drop into that level of consciousness, when you drop into that energy, when you drop into that vibration, you become a match for attracting the perfect person into your life. How to be happy again is easy by just having happy vibrations!

Just like that. You shift to a different frequency plane. You start to see things that were always there that you didn't notice. William Blake says when the doors of perception are cleansed, everything appears as it is infinite that there actually aren't any limitations. Even in our own love life. Some of us aren't meant to have it and some of us aren't?How to be happy is to claim it! It is love! It's here available to you, but you have to take a deep breath and claim it and let go of the story. You know, you are 100% worthy of love. You're 100%, whole you're 100% complete. Good enough.  It's here available to you, but you have to take a deep breath and claim it and let go of the story. You know, you are 100% worthy of love. You're 100%, whole you're 100% complete. Good enough.


So just start to feel that energy right now. Stop asking yourself how to be happy and when you start to feel that energy right now, you've kicked it up to a different frequency pattern. And you're going to start noticing different things, show up in your life. And if you start to notice those different things, the next step that you can do is write them down on a piece of paper, of the ideal qualities of the type of person you want out there. Once you understand they are out there and you start to make the space first in your mind, second in your heart, third in your state of being, then you can start to direct that creative energy a little bit, because love is a creative energy.When you start to direct that energy, you can make a list of the qualities. And this is what I did next.

Tell The Universe What You Want And Be Ready!

I made a list after the other woman dumped me, because I finally was like, okay, that person wasn't right. I see it now. So I said, if true love does exist. If true love is out there. If God is creative in infinite nature, what do I want? So I made this list. I wanted them to be an artist. I wanted them to be creative, the person before wasn't creative. And I wish that they were creative. So I made this list and I actually just wrote it down. All these qualities wanted them to be athletic. I wanted them to have play sports that we could exercise when they were younger. So then they were more into fitness. We could exercise together and go do fun things together.


So once you build that list, then just let it go. And then you fall back into that feeling again. And that feeling is love. You don't doubt the list. You don't question the list. You don't go well then how is it going to happen? And will it happen? And what if I do it? And it doesn't happen, then I'm just let down again. And then the cycle where you just drop it, you could burn the list. You can flush it down the toilet. You could put it on your, on your table. You could tape it on your wall. It's already buried in the subconscious mind and it's already been asked of God. It will deliver. 

How To Be Happy Again In A Relationship? Be Happy With You First!  

If you stay in that vibe, if you don't settle, if you keep showing up for yourself and if you realize you don't need another person to make you happy, and once you've done all those steps, focus on a relationship can't actually be the thing that makes you happy. It's impossible. If you're seeking that out of a relationship, it'll never work. So remember, this is about you creating your dream reality for the short time that you're here on planet earth and hearing a bot so love and a relationship can amplify building your career, your, your, your dream life, but it can't fulfill you in and of itself. And when you remember that, what happens is you take love off a pedastool. You take other people off a pedestal and you take having the soulmate off a pedestal. And when that happens, energetically, it shifts all the focus to realizing you're the creator of your own destiny.

You can make yourself happy again. You can love yourself again. Then you can direct that creative energy into building your dream life. If you can, now that you've done those previous steps, you've made the list. You'd done. You've, you've done those previous steps. You let go of the negative energy. Now, focus on building your dream life. And when you start stepping onto your purpose, they show up like, for me, that's how it happened. It just, eventually she just showed up. I went through these steps and then I said, look, I'm not going to settle. I'm going to focus on building the best life ever. I know I'm going to meet them. And so I'm going to become as, as attractive of a, of a individual and life as I possibly can for when I finally meet them. So then I put all my energy into my building, my dream life, my goals, my career, all these things, my fitness, my health, all these types of things, my spiritual growth, my finding my purpose in life.

How To Be Happy Again? Let The Universe Have Control! 

I got a random phone call and somebody said, Hey, I got a friend coming into town. His friend has a daughter that lives in a different state. You should probably meet her. I think you liked her. And I was like, yeah, I don't want to meet her. You know, I'm doing my thing. Uh, you know, I was so focused on my thing, but I decided to go. That was how I met Ashley. I wasn't expecting it. I didn't control it. I didn't plan for it. It just happened. That's, what's going to happen to you.

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Jake