In this video, Ashley and I are going to share with you some ways How To Stop Chasing Love and Relationships by manifesting your soulmate.We're going to talk about each of our best techniques that we use to attract your soulmate, stop chasing the relationship, and start to bring it into your life. Is that correct? You will also learn How To Get A Boyfriend by not chasing someone.
How To Stop Chasing Love And Relationships By Scripting
That is absolutely correct. So come on. The first technique we're going to be talking about to attract your soulmate, your dream romantic relationship in your life, is one Ashley actually used to attract me. She absolutely swears by this one, and she calls it scripting. So she's going to break down how you can do that and how she swears it's what she used in order to attract me into her
Life, whatever that's worth. Yeah Scripting to manifest your soulmate It's something that I do to attract Jake into my life. And I want to share with you not only what scripting is, but how to use it to attract your soulmate. So, scripting is writing and journaling as if what it is you want in your life has already happened. So you're creating space, you're drawing it into your present moment awareness so that it becomes a reality in your life. You know, when you're manifesting and attracting anything, as you know, you've watched Jake's channel, it's just a frequency, it's an energetic frequency that you're matching with. And then it becomes a reality, becomes physical in your life, and uses scripting as an extremely powerful tool in doing so. So when you're scripting to manifest your soulmate, you're sharing. I'm so happy and grateful.
How To Start Chasing Love And Relationships -Start Shifting Your Mind
Every day we spend together energizes me. so outrageously joyous, and I feel compatible with him or her on every single level. I just feel so grateful that they're here right now to spend this life with me and to, and whatever it is you want to, you know, go off on. That's exactly what my scripting sounded like before I was able to attract Jake into my life. Before Jake, I was kind of walking out of an icky relationship, and I didn't want to make the same mistakes twice. So I started shifting my mind. I started shifting what it was I was wanting to attract by writing about it and not only writing about it, but writing about it in first person, which is what we call scripting. So if you're looking to manifest your perfect, most incredible, amazing partner, who is just your soulmate, it is possible. And we want you to start with scripting.
So I want you to sit down to the pages of your journal, whether it's after this video, whether it's tomorrow morning, and every single day commit to speaking your dream life into existence. How Do You Get A Boyfriend Fast? So that goes to say for your business. That goes to say for how you're waking up and feeling energized every day. Maybe it's your health. I want you to start aligning your life on a multitude of levels and start talking about your perfect partner. And that's going to 10 X your ability to attract them into your life. For my experience with Jake, just a little tidbit on me and how I was able to attract him. I started manifesting him on the pages of my journal. Sounds interesting? Read more here How to STOP Obsessing Over Someone And Start Letting Go.
Step Up Your Journaling Game And Start Manifesting Big
Then I began when I met him, saying my boyfriend, Jake Ducey, and I travel all over the world. We all love one another. We are so happy together. He wasn't even my boyfriend. Okay, I just really wanted to attract it. And I did. And then when he was my boyfriend, I started wanting to, you know, be like, uh, have him be my husband. I started scripting him being my husband. And it really, really is influential when you're creating what it is you want. So I hope this segment really helps and encourages and inspires you to step up your journaling game and start manifesting big. So for this next section, Jake is going to talk to you about that. So here's Ala kazam, your soulmate is here!
Did you try scripting? What I did was the relationship before I met Ashley didn't work out. And in hindsight, there were a lot of red flags, but I think I was chasing a relationship so much that I didn't notice them. And then, in hindsight, it did. So I actually made a list, and I just wrote out all the qualities that I wanted. I wanted someone that was creative. That was an artist. Ashley's an artist. She's actually one of the most amazing artists I ever met and became really an incredible artist during the course of our relationship. This huge wood-burning sacred geometry, Mandalas, on big nine-foot pieces. They're really cool. I actually wrote that on a piece of paper.
Manifesting The One You Chose To Love
I remember when I wrote it, creative artist personality, I was like, is this too picky? And is this even possible? I'm writing it on a piece of paper, like what are the odds? I made this list. I put things like the relationship before the person who wasn't as into fitness and exercise. And it was something that Ashley and I always bonded over. So I wrote someone that played sports growing up and was into fitness and exercise. And I just built this huge list onto a piece of paper afterward. You could burn it, you could flush it down the toilet. You could put it on your wall. You can do anything you want with it. It's already entered the subconscious mind. And if you can stay the course, you're going to start to see weird little things on that list that you imagine that you wrote about. You know, maybe when we even did the exercise, you didn't think it was really possible, but then you start to see those things materialize. So it's a fun one to do. It's just quite simple to add to your journal.
All we're going to talk about is number three. So let go of your story and your beliefs about love. There was a long time where I, you know, 50 plus percent of people end up in a divorce, so there's a lot of trauma that we all have, or that we've all heard about from relationships. And so I inherited certain ideas from past relationships in my life, not working out that, you know, love is pain or that true love doesn't exist. And so I had to totally change my belief system that started to match one where I believe that God is love and God is in everything, in every cell of my body and every cell of her body, in every cell of the computer, and in every subatomic particle of the chair that you're sitting on. And that love was all of that. Therefore, if I match the frequency of it, that person has to be out there.
Looking For The Perfect Match
For whatever reason, that is right for me, like that can be based on my personality and who I am, just the perfect person that matches up to that had to theoretically be out there if God was love and I didn't need to create them, they already existed. I just had to shift. My perspective on love was that paying for love was hard. They aren't out there. Eventually, You just have to settle for someone that's pretty cool. Maybe you find them really attractive, but personality-wise, they don't fit. And you just settle for that. So that was kind of it for me. What about you?
You have to let go of a lot. We have all of these preconceived notions of what we believe love is like, what Jake was saying. You know, we're really programmed in the first six years of our life. So what we're seeing and feeling in our childhood and adolescence is that our parents are divorced.That's a huge epidemic happening in the world right now. So we pick up all of these belief systems around love.
Believe That You Will Attract Your Soulmate
And the whole country is down. It's an epidemic. It's super challenging to overcome them sometimes. But if you really want to manifest and you really want to attract your soulmate, which is a big thing, right? It's not a part, it's a boyfriend, it's not a girlfriend. It's your soulmate. It's your life partner. It's who you're going to go through ups and downs with, who you're going to experience life with. And if you really want to attract someone on a really deep and profound level, someone who's going to really up-level your life,
You have to work through all of those things, ask yourself, you know, on the other side of the camera, ask yourself, what do I believe? What have I picked up that is not serving me at this moment right now in attracting my soulmate? Maybe it's the fact that, um, I'm not good enough. I'm not pretty enough. I'm, you know, I haven't seen real love. Love doesn't exist. You know, ask yourself what different blocks have been created in your life, by yourself, by your surroundings, in your environment, and what can you let go of in order to attract it. And that's really what I really meant. I started scripting and manifesting Jake, um, really early on at 20 years old. And I did it by letting go of all of these conditions, all of these things that were keeping me from creating my perfect,
How To Start Chasing Love And Relationships - Worthiness Is A Huge Factor
I was listening to you. And so I was thinking about what those things were for you. And I was wondering, is it that you didn't feel worthy of love? What would you say? One of the number one things for you to overcome, either through the journey of us beginning to date or before it, or what did you think your top one was?
Well, worthiness is a huge factor, and for me it was worthiness because I didn't feel like I was worthy of the partner that I wanted. I always settled. And I know a lot of people have experienced this, especially a lot of women, but a lot of men too. We settle for what we think we deserve or what we've seen happen in our life. We settle for somebody who mistreats you or abuses you. And I had settled for so many years, starting so young. I started dating when I was way too young, and I had to let go of that. I had to really believe I was worthy of a really good, amazing, sweet, and very active man. Okay,
"How To Attract Your Soulmate Series" Will Be Created Soon
We really hope that you guys enjoy this video. You know, filming videos together is not something we do very often. And I know it's something that we would like to be inspired by right now. And we wanted to offer you guys the chance to comment and just ask questions or share what your experiences are or something that we could film a video on in the future for you.
It's hard to quantify how the actual process of doing that, attracting your soulmate and also the cross, along with the whole relationship, actually works. So it's hard to quantify it just like that, into three things. You know, there are probably dozens and dozens. Maybe we'll make this into a series, a how-to attract your soulmate series. We can talk about relationships and, some of them; some of the good times of how we attracted one another; and some of the harder times; and how we worked through our relationship and continued. Yeah, that's a real thing. You know, that's a part of the journey, right? We'd love to talk about
Reprogramming Old Negative Beliefs
A lot of people are asking me to do relationship videos here on the channel. And so, uh, we just hired a videographer with whom we can do some fun videos together. We're starting to get into a good rhythm now as parents. So let us know in the comments if you'd like to see more of them, if you've got a certain question that you'd like to see answered, and last but not least, if you haven't yet, make sure you download my free success hypnosis. It's Jake's hypnosis.com right there, down below. Now I talk about this in every video and it's like, I almost beg of you to use this because it changes our lives. We have to reprogram our subconscious mind. And you can't always do that just by watching a YouTube video. And this thing has changed my life forever. It reprograms old limiting and negative belief systems buried in the subconscious to rewire your mind to help you attract what you want. And I always talk about it, but Ashley can attest to it. I can attest that this thing has been powerful for us.
Us, not even just Jake. I used that hypnosis for months and years, and it created the foundation for the entire life that you guys were able to witness a little bit of in this video. You know, we've really been able to attract and manifest on a personal level, on a spiritual level, and on a business level. And is it true that you had to listen to me play that every night before we went to sleep? When we lived in Hollywood, We listen to it every night, but I listen to it every time he goes in the shower.
I was like, "Really?" because once you learn that the subconscious actually works like this, that's why I'm saying, "Just do it." It's right there down below. It's free. It's in the description and pinned to the comments right there, down below. So use it. And, uh, thanks for watching this video. Let us know in the comments if you'd like to see more of them, and we'll talk to you soon.