How To Get What I Want In Life: I know that's a really big promise and a really big ask, but if you simplify it, it's actually not that complex of an issue. You can have whatever you want in life, but there's a very simple formula that you have to follow. I'm going to discuss that formula in detail so you can know exactly how to get whatever you want in life. The sun just went down; it's a beautiful day today, and if you're having a great day yourself, leave a comment down below that says, "It's a beautiful day." Let's dive right into this. If this sounds interesting read more - How To Attract Wealth And Prosperity.
Better Treat Other People Than Ourselves
So think about this: Have you ever done something for somebody that you don't do for yourself? It's really weird, right? Like others, we treat other people better than we treat ourselves. We treat other people the way we want to be treated, but we don't treat ourselves that way, and we do this in a lot of ways. We do this by half-assing our work; we do this by not eating well; we do this by not doing our meditation or our hypnosis, and people that are familiar with this channel know that I have a free success hypnosis that you can check out. It's a success hypnosis to reprogram your subconscious. It's right there, down below. It's jakeshypnosis.com right there down below, but it's like we do the things for other people that we know we should do for ourselves, but then we don't do them for ourselves, and it creates this really weird self-esteem issue where we don't realize how great we are.
You think you're too fat; you think you're too dumb; you think you're not good with numbers; you think you're unlovable; you think you're not that smart; you think you're not that good-looking. You think you're just not that capable overall; you just can't do it; you just can't figure it out; there's no way you're as good as that, and we just beat ourselves up, sometimes in our heads, but sometimes just with our actions by not doing the things we would do for other people. If this sounds interesting read more - 8 Things to Remember to Manifest What You Want.
Your Relationship With Yourself Is The Most Important One You'll Ever Have
The most important relationship that you'll ever have is a relationship with yourself, and it's a relationship that everybody neglects and nobody thinks really matters. Most people don't even know it exists; they don't even realize that having a relationship with themselves is important, but why is your relationship with yourself so important? Think about it. So you're building your self-image with every single action that you take all day long, and if you have a poor relationship with yourself, you do things for other people that you don't do for yourself. If you don't take care of yourself emotionally with your thoughts, your foods, and the actions you take with cutting out unhealthy people and unhealthy things in unhealthy situations, what happens is that what you're really seeing is, "I'm not worthy of love." I'm not worthy of abundance. I'm not worthy of success. "I'm not worthy of what I want.”
You Get What You Are, Not What You Want
Wayne Dyer says you don't get what you want; you get what you are. I say what Dyer says is true because his spirit lives on. What are you? You are a vibrational frequency pattern; that's what you are. So based on the vibrational frequency pattern that you admit to having, you attract things that match that pattern. You don't get what you want; you get what you are. Therefore, your self-image plays a very small role in determining the energy that you emit to the universe and to other people in the world at large. Your self-image sets up an overall frequency pattern. That frequency pattern determines what you do and do not attract and have in your life. If you can change your love for yourself and start to practice more love for yourself, ask yourself what it would look like if you treated yourself the way that you treat other people.
Maybe you're always there for your mom, your brother, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, or your best friend. You always have the best advice, and you always have great people to recommend. What would it look like if you did that for yourself? What would it look like if you started to get in better shape and lost some of that weight? What would it look like if you started to get stronger? What would it look like if you started to eat healthier?
What would it look like if you started to spend your Fridays and Saturdays working on that additional source of income instead of at the bar? What would it look like if you started to take better care of yourself? What would it look like if you started to talk to yourself better and started to write lists of what you were grateful for every day? What would it look like if you started to meditate every day? What would it look like if you started to say yes to your desires, dreams, and goals? What would it look like if you started going like this? If this sounds interesting read more - How To Manifest What You Want.
Build Your Confidence And Learn How To Be Be A Better Person
Just hold it. I just drove back from a road trip because I was visiting my wife's family. I just drove like this. That was like a real gift that I got. I smile at other people. Isn't that weird? Sometimes, even when people are depressed, they'll never smile, right? But then they'll go out to a store, smile at everybody, and say, "Hey, how are you?" So if we do it for other people, why don't you do it for yourself? So as we come to the end of this, ask yourself,
"How can you show up for yourself more?" What are the ways you are not showing up for yourself? What are the ways you can be a better friend to yourself and a better person to yourself? What's going to happen is that you're going to build more confidence, and when you build more confidence, you say no to all the crappy things in your life. When do you say no to the crappy things in your life? When you say no to all the crappy things in your life and the crappy ways you say them, by degrading yourself and not building yourself up.
You're not only doing a disservice to yourself but to everyone around you, and when you show up for yourself, your self-image changes. You realize you're a badass mofo. You're a child of God. You're one with the universe. You are a divine being. You have the universe at your side. The miracle-working presence of life is always available to you, and it's really exciting because it's like, "Oh my gosh, I am good enough for everything that I want in life."
Leave a comment below. I love myself, and then say it to yourself with a smile on your face, "I love myself." And if you haven't yet, check out my free success hypnosis at jakeshypnosis.com. It's in the description in the comments right there.