In this video, I was going to talk about how to attract a specific person into your life. Some of the most powerful steps to attracting your soulmate, to attracting the ideal relationship in your life, or to stop feeling like maybe it's alluding to you or you're chasing it, or maybe you're wondering if it even exists anymore. Maybe you've even made up your mind that it doesn't exist. And you're just going to do it on your own, or you set a lower standard for yourself. And in this video, I just want you to have an open mind because I felt a lot of those feelings and a lot of those emotions. And I did these very powerful steps to attract my ideal relationship and how to be happy again.
Attracting A Specific Person Into Your Life Is Easy
I found a soulmate. Her name ended up being Ashley, and we ended up having a baby together. And, you know, to be honest, it's better than I ever imagined. And at the time, I really didn't even think it was that possible. And so in this video, I'm going to help you do that exact same thing. I will teach you how to be happy again. So, uh, if you enjoy this episode, then be sure to watch this one again. This one might be one you want to watch a couple of times. So have an absolutely great day and let's dive right into this video.
So I was thinking, like, what is it that stops most people from ever attracting their ideal partner into their lives? And if you think about it, what happens is we get so used to it, not existing, that we get stuck in the familiar. And we convince ourselves that the ideal person might not be out there. Then, as a result, we settle right. Then we lower our standards. Or we chase a relationship with someone that isn't the right person or we're in a relationship. And you know, it's not exactly what we dream of and you've tried to work on it. It's just not the right one, but we stay in it because what if this is the best that's out there and then I'm totally alone. And it's an understandable way to look at it. But what we have to ask ourselves is can I create the space in my life for the ideal person to come in?
Attract A Specific Person Into Your Life And It Will Eventually Create Your Love Of Your Life
That means if we're in one right now, that isn't ideal. And there seems to be no budging, but we've just set lower standards because we've said, ah, this idea of true love and a fairy tale type of stuff, none of that exists, or the flip side is universal. Do it for you. Which happened to me, the person that I met before my wife, Ashley. I was chasing this thing. When I really look back on it, I was attracted to them physically. There were emotional and spiritual gaps that the two of us had that was obvious red flags that we weren't going to work, but I just ignored them. And then she ended up breaking up with me, and the universe just did it to me.
So you might be in one of those two camps, or you might be in both. That's just it; you've been alone. You're like, they're not even out there to begin with. I've done the dating apps. I've set the dates. I've tried I've been in a bunch of relationships and, you know, it's just never been the right one. So what happens out of that is that we develop an assumption about reality that the right person probably isn't even out there. And once we develop that assumption about reality, that not only defines our love of our life, it actually creates our love life.
This Originating Substance Of The Universe Is Called Pure Love
I want to ask you a question. Do you know that the right person is already out there for you? I don't know where they live. I mean, they might be in Canada. They might be in China. They might be in Peru. They might be in California or New York. They might actually not even be native speakers of the same language as you. They may speak the same language, but it may be their second language, or maybe you're going to meet them in the grocery store next week. And it's just going to happen. And you're going to turn your head and you're going to feel it. And you're going to, oh my God, that's the one.
So my question is, what does it feel like to know that they actually already exist? Because if God is love and God has everything, it's in everything, whatever you want to call it. As
Just Believe You Are Meant To Find True Love
If God is love and it's manifested in everything, just rationally speaking, your destiny is love. So you have to drop this story and this idea that you're not meant for it, or you're not worthy of it, or you're not good enough for it where love is pain, or love is too hard, where it's not out there for you because of something you did, or because of something somebody said, or some bad memories, maybe something a parent did, or something an ex said to your dad. And it's just left you thinking that either it's not out there, you're not deserving, you're not worthy, or it's not possible. Just drop that idea and remember who you are.
From our love, you come from love and your destiny. And if all of that is so, trust me, they're out there, but you've got to step into this camp. You have to suspend your disbelief that you've had and create the space. If you knew that they were coming on August 7th or on December 11th, you knew you were going to see them in the grocery store when you went to Mexico or when you were in California. And it was just going to happen while you were ordering your coffee or your donut. And you're just going to turn around and they're going to be right there. And you knew it was going to happen in this beautiful, powerful, mysterious way. How would you feel?
Attracting A Specific Person Into Your Life Needs Shifting To A Different Frequency Plane
Gosh, you'd feel great. You'd have a deeper breath. You wouldn't feel as constricted, would you? You'd be like, "Yes, finally." I know it. I guess you're too, I guess, would be a little bit bigger. You wouldn't be worried. You wouldn't be fretting and you wouldn't be trying to figure it all out and trying to control the universe and trying to control the infinite source of love and tell it what to do. You already know that it's here and you already know that it's. And when you drop into that level of consciousness, when you drop into that energy, when you drop into that vibration, you become a match for attracting the perfect person into your life.
Just like that. You shift to a different frequency plane. You start to see things that were always there, but you didn't notice them. William Blake says when the doors of perception are cleansed, everything appears as if it is infinite, that there actually aren't any limitations. Even in our own love lives. Some of us aren't meant to have it and some of us aren't. It is love! It's here, available to you, but you have to take a deep breath and claim it and let go of the story. You know, you are 100% worthy of love. You're 100% whole. You're 100% complete. Good enough.
Write Down The Ideal Qualities You Search For A Partner
So just start to feel that energy right now. And when you start to feel that energy right now, you've kicked it up to a different frequency pattern. And you're going to start noticing different things show up in your life. And if you start to notice those different things, the next step that you can do is write them down on a piece of paper. These are the ideal qualities of the type of person you want out there. Once you understand that they are out there and you start to do. When you create the space first in your mind, second in your heart, third in your state of being, then you can start to direct that creative energy a little bit, because love is creative energy. And when you start to direct that energy, you can make a list of the qualities. And this is what I did next. Next, I made a list after the other woman dumped me, because I finally was like, okay, that person wasn't right.
I see it now. So I said, if true love does exist, If true love is out there, If God is creative in infinite nature, what do I want? So I made this list. I wanted them to be an artist. I wanted them to be creative because the person before wasn't creative. And I wish that they were created. So I made this list and I actually just wrote it down. All these qualities want them to be athletic. I wanted them to play sports that we could exercise when they were younger. So then they got more into fitness. We could exercise together and go do fun things together.
This Is About You Creating Your Dream Reality
Once you build that list, just let it go. And then you fall back into that feeling again. And that feeling is love. You don't doubt the list. You don't question the list. You don't go well, then how is it going to happen? And will it happen? And what if I do it? If it doesn't happen, then I'm just let down again. And then the cycle where you just drop it, you could burn the list. You can flush it down the toilet. You could put it on your desk or on your table. You could tape it on your wall. It's already buried in the subconscious mind and it's already been asked of God. It will deliver.
If you stay in that vibe, if you don't settle, if you keep showing up for yourself, and if you realize you don't need another person to make you happy, and once you've done all those steps, focus on.
You just remember a relationship can't actually be the thing that makes you happy. It's impossible. If you're seeking that out of a relationship, it'll never work. So remember, this is about you creating your dream reality for the short time that you're here on planet earth and hearing a lot, so love and a relationship can amplify build your career, your dream life, but it can't fulfill you in and of itself. And when you remember that, what happens is you take love off a pedestal. You take other people off a pedestal and you take your soulmate off a pedestal. And when that happens, energetically, it shifts all the focus to realizing you're the creator of your own destiny.
You Don't Need To Plan For It Because It Will Just Happen
You can make yourself happy. You can love yourself. And then you can direct that creative energy into building your dream life. And if you can, now that you've done those previous steps, you've made the list. You'd done it. You've already taken those previous steps. You let go of the story. Now, focus on building your dream life. And when you start stepping onto your purpose, they show up, like, for me, that's how it happened. It was just, eventually, she just showed up. I went through these steps, and then I said, "Look, I'm not going to settle." I'm going to focus on building the best life ever. I know I'm going to meet them. And so I'm going to become as attractive of an individual and as full of life as I possibly can be when I finally meet them. So then I put all my energy into my building, my dream life, my goals, my career, all these things; my fitness, my health, all these types of things; my spiritual growth, my finding my purpose in life.
And then I got a random phone call and somebody said, "Hey, I've got a friend coming into town." His friend has a daughter that lives in a different state. You should probably meet her. I think you liked her. And I was like, yeah, I don't want to meet her. You know, I'm doing my thing. Uh, you know, I was so focused on my thing, but I decided to go. And that was how I met Ashley. I wasn't expecting it. I didn't control it. I didn't plan for it. It just happened. And that's what's going to happen to you. So thank you for watching today's episode. If you found it valuable, make sure you hit that like button on this video. You can hug that like a button. Some people say you smash the like button today. You can hug the like button. If you want, Give me a comment down below.
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