How to stop caring about what other people think: Who cares if they don't like you, if they hate you, if they think you're stupid or dumb, or if they disagree with you? You're literally on this little planet for a very short period of time, and almost everyone is caught in a total illusion because almost everyone thinks they're these little physical fat and muscle blobs that are one step above animals in a dog-eat-dog world. If you like this, read my previous blog The Lack Of Money Is The Root Of All Evil.
No Need To Worry If People Like You Or Not
It's as if the overwhelming majority of people's consciousness is so unevolved that they're stuck believing what TV programming, the media, the news, and the establishment tell them, as if they still believe they're a body, and because they're missing the truth so much, they have to project their energy onto something outside of themselves to control, and that's trying to control your self-esteem.
Does it matter if they don't like you or don't approve of who you are? If your mom doesn't approve of who you are, if some guy on the internet doesn't approve of who you are, if your roommate thinks you're an idiot, do you really need to explain to them why they're wrong? Do you really need to waste any energy worrying if they like you?
It’s Your Job To Like Yourself
It's not your job to get other people to like you; it's your job to like yourself, according to Byron Katie. When you consider how asleep most people are in their own consciousness, spirituality, and understanding of what life is and what life is about, and who they are, does it really matter if they don't like you or approve of you? Maybe they even hate you? Maybe they think your ideas stink? Maybe they think you're an idiot?
If you just lived your life, if you just did what was best for you, and you didn't waste a million ounces of energy worrying about anyone, whether it was a friend, a family member, or a stranger, you literally let everybody else think and do whatever they wanted to do with your life, and you thought and did whatever you wanted to do with your own life because you understood that there's no amount of energy you can put into changing somebody else.
Lighten Up On Yourself
If you ever give up trying to change in order for others to like and approve of you, you will be instantly enlightened. Because the word "enlightened" means "enlightened," it's when you lighten up on yourself, and we carry this heavy burden because we're trained to be sheep, where we care so much about what everybody thinks of us, about fitting into society, and we care about not sounding too ridiculous or too crazy, and we care about not failing too much at something.
If you ever give up trying to change in order for others to like and approve of you, you will be instantly enlightened. Because the word "enlightened" means "enlightened," it's when you lighten up on yourself, and we carry this heavy burden because we're trained to be sheep, where we care so much about what everybody thinks of us, about fitting into society, and we care about not sounding too ridiculous or too crazy, and we care about not failing too much at something.
My Happiness And Freedom Are More Important
No, you just have one, that's all it is, but you are a soul. But what happens is that because we get caught in the matrix and the illusion for so long, we believe that we are just our physical bodies and our minds, and because of that, we identify with the world of form, and disapproval from somebody else is threatening to our very existence. So it's this primitive natural part of ourselves, but you and I have to be able to catch it and just be like, "Who cares? I'm not even going to get mad at me?" Even if you try to correct me while attacking, annoying, harassing, being negative, putting me down, or making me feel like I don't matter, that won't bother me.
I'm not going to get angry or worried about it because I simply don't have the time; my life is too important, and my happiness and freedom are too important, so I don't care what you say. The media says the government says my coworker says I'm going to follow my intuition and be the best version of myself, and I invite you to join me on that journey, but if you don't want to come, that's fine too. So, if you truly want to be free of other people's opinions and people who dislike you or dislike you passionately, I invite you to simply ask yourself one simple question.
It Is Not My Job To Get Other People To Like Me
Can I be happy even if this person doesn't like me? Can I be happy even if this person disagrees with me? Can I be happy even though this person's giving me a hard time? Can I be happy even though this person is super negative and they disagree with me? Can I be happy even if that person never changes? Can I be happy if I never get their approval or validation and they never like me? Yeah, I can, because at the end of the day, it's my job to like me; it's not my job to get other people to like me.
So I hope this video speaks to you; if it does, please hit the "like" button over there on the right side to share it with more people; I was just thinking that this would be a powerful video to share. Right now, in a hyper-connected technological world, everybody can get so caught up in what other people say and do, and the key to all freedom in life is to focus on you and your energy and your vibe, so hit the like button on this side right over there. Comment down below; it's my job to like me. That Byron Katie quote is beautiful, and she says that it's not your job to get other people to like you; it's your job to like yourself.
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