I see a lot of times you find someone that's attractive and you just want, please think about me, right? You just want them to think about you and make them miss you being around. And a lot of times what ends up happening is we actually do the opposite. We don't realize it, but we subconsciously push it away. And so in this post m89,¬ø≥00;/p-'[=]\ I'm going to share with you some very important tricks and hacks to make someone attract into your life. Make someone think about you, but without pushing them away at the exact same time. Let's dive right into this post.
Make Them Miss You: Stop Thinking About Them!
All right. So if you want someone to think about you, make them miss you, and you want to attract them into your life. The first thing you have to do is stop thinking about them and then you have to find someone else you find attractive and go talk to them. Not because you're getting something from that conversation. Like let's say, I think Betsy is really, I like Betsy a lot. Right? And I really want to be with Betsy and I'm like, Betsy, please think about me. Hello? She, and I'm like trying to figure out how to make Betsy like me. Well, what about Susie at the coffee shop? Don't even know her name yet, but I know it will be Susie. Because I'm about to introduce myself. You're not introducing yourself to even get Susie's phone number or vice versa. Let's pretend that you, that you like men or you like women doesn't matter. Doesn't matter at all, but you find someone that's attractive and you just go talk to them.
Letting Go : Makes Them To Miss You More!
When you do this, a couple things happen. It gives you the process of letting go. It pushes your boundaries. And what it also does is it helps you subconsciously let go of needing Betsy at the beginning or Bob at the beginning. So you really want this one person to like you talk to you, attract them into your life. You're trying to figure out how to make it work. But when you go talk to some random person, totally unattached from the outcome of it, because you think they're kind of attractive. What you're doing is you're subconsciously letting go of the first relationship, whatever you hold on too tightly, you cannot attract into your life. This is especially true in relationships, right? It's like you go on a date on the first date. They're like, so how many years till you're going to get married, do you think you would have four kids in the next four years?
Detach From The Person You Want And Talk To Someone Different
Do you think we could share bank accounts? Like on the first date? Right? And you're like, what a freak it's too needy. Needy is creepy. So the first step is just quite simply to go out today in the grocery store and walk over to someone and say, nice bananas. And just start talking to them. You have to understand this is all about subconsciously detaching from the first person, because attraction is all subconscious. It's emotional.
The subconscious is the emotional mind. So it's all subconscious. So when you go over and you ask that person about their, dented bananas at the grocery store, and you start talking to them, what you're doing is at first, you may feel a little awkward, but what you're doing is you're letting go subconsciously the first person. Who knows this person with a nice bananas may be you attracting your soulmate.
And you don't even know it because you're so attached to one person, but maybe not. But when you let go of that, it changes your subconscious dynamic in the original person that you want to attract can feel it. Making them miss you and want you there. Subconsciously sub, means below so subconscious. They aren't aware of it. It's the, it's the attraction factor. That's why people always say, why are you attracting them?
They're like, I don't know. I don't know they're bad for me. And I just, I don't know what, just because it's subconscious, it's emotional. And so when you let go of the needy energy, subconsciously that person, even if they're in another state is going to pick that up subconsciously. When you let go of being needy, then that makes them attracted to you. They don't realize it because it's all subconscious, all emotional. And then all of a sudden they're like, oh, I haven't heard from Billy in a minute. I haven't heard from Susie. I feel like the vibe change and it makes them miss you, right? And that's what attraction is. So go find someone and talk to them.
Make Yourself Desirable: Focus On Building Your Life!
The second thing to make them miss you and make them think about you is to make yourself desirable. And you're like, well, I am desirable. Please come on. have me back. I promise! That's not desirable. So think about it like this. If you never were in a romantic relationship again, how would you build your life? This is exactly what happened to me, right? I thought I was in the relationship that I was of my dreams is before I met my wife, Ashley, and then the relationship ended in a terrible way. And I was so depressed and it's very unlike me. And I was, I was just like, I didn't have any energy. I didn't know I was my, I was hurt. My heart was broken. And then I was confused and all these things. And after a little while I realized, I asked myself a question and I said, uh, if I never meet someone, what would I do with my life?
Work On Becoming The Best Version Of Yourself!
I was like, dude, I build the most bad-ass life ever. I'm going to blow my business up my books up. I'm going to make more money than ever before. Inspire more people than ever before. I'm going to get the healthiest I've ever been. I'm all this freedom to go do whatever I want. Adventures hikes travels, do whatever I want. I'm going to build the coolest life in the world. Get lost in building your life. The reason why so many people have settled relationships, mediocre relationships is they never did the original thing. So then the relationship became a way to fill the void of never building the best version of themselves.
And so the question is, what do you want out of your life? And are you living it? Because if you are, when you show up at a date or you meet someone in the grocery store aisle, and they're like, how are you? You're like, dude, I'm freaking awesome. My life is great. I just got back from like Guatemala. And then I went to Mexico and I just liked my brand new business. And then this happened and oh my gosh, it was great. And I woke up at 5:00 AM. I went to the gym, like, things are awesome right now. And they go, what did you just say? Wow, something about your vibe. Can I have your phone number? Can I am button your shirt? Can I put my hand here?
Stop Focusing On Them: This Will Make Them Miss You!
What happens is the subconscious dynamic of attraction changes. And so instead of you looking for it, it looks for you because what you chase alludes you, but what you don't try to chase comes to you. So build your life. And then what happened to me is I started building like my life. I was so confident, inspired. I was on such a good one. I had just done a TEDx talk. My first self published book. Sold all these copies, so Penguin Random House, and number one book publisher in the world at 22, paid me a bunch of money to write a book.
When You Are Ready : That's When You Attract Them!
Like I was on top of the world. And then out of nowhere, someone said, Hey, meet this one girl. And that was Ashley. So I go to meet this lady and I didn't really want to, but he, he, he, uh, forced me to meet her and I was on top of the world. And so when you're in that vibe, the perfect person comes to you. Or the previous person that you wanted now has a total perception shift about you because all of a sudden, you're this magnet desirable person in a world where everyone's conforming and everyone's living average lives and you're not settling and breaking that limits of settling and building. The best version of yourself is what will make you attractive.
So you just got to remember that, you have bad-ass within you. You are an awesome person within you. You are pretty cool, but you never really realized it when you're constantly chasing relationships. You never really realized that when you're constantly trying to get someone to like you, and we don't really realize that all that effort is actually negating it, right? It's like that old saying in old kung fu movies, " Grasshopper, don't try so hard." But it's the,just the simple truth, but it's so counterintuitive. So remember attraction is subconscious and emotional. When your vibration shifts, how people perceive you and who you tracked back into your world shifts as well. Let me know how you enjoyed this video and I'll see you next time.
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