Do you think you're using the law of attraction to break out of fear and not getting results? Let's talk about it. People ask me all the time, how do I make the right decision?
If you have two decisions going on in your head, one of them is going to be a decision that is speaking to you from love. It's speaking to you from your heart, and it's speaking to you from intuition. There's going to be another one. Thats second one is going to be speaking to you from the mind. It's going to be speaking to you from a conditioned fear-based pattern. It's going to feel rational, and it's going to feel logical, and it's not going to feel good in your body.
The other one from intuition, the other one from the heart that is going to feel expansive. That's going to feel enlivening and it's going to feel unknown. It's going to feel uncertain. Perhaps it will feel exhilarating and scary at the same time.
The way that we stay within the very small box in our life is the fear of consequences. And that's the fear of, if I do something different, something bad will happen. If I speak out something bad will happen. If I go for my dreams, I might fail. If I do this, I may go broke and I'll go bankrupt. And I can't pay my rent and I can't pay my mortgage. And if I do this, then maybe I won't ever meet my soulmate.
And if I leave this relationship that's not that great, maybe I'll never find anyone better. It's always the fear of consequences. The fear of consequences is the most deadly fear other than the fear of death in the world, because it paralyzes and controls you.
It controls you. So the way to tell what decision is the right decision is to learn, to be able to differentiate between the voice that talks from your head and the one that talks from your heart. The one that talks from your heart comes from feeling. It comes from an expansive state and an expansive sensation. It's the thing that keeps coming up in your life that you feel a huge tug toward, but you talk yourself out of every time.
If you want to step into the greatest version of yourself, if you want to go on your hero's journey, that's the voice that you have to listen to. That's the decision that you have to follow. When I was 19 years old and I decided to drop out of college, every single person pretty much told me it was a terrible idea. I lost every single one of my friends, except for two or three of them. Most of them thought I was crazy. My mom thought I was insane. They said, this is the worst decision, you are throwing your life away.
There wasn't a logical reason to go on my path. There was a soulful one. There was a heartfelt one. There was an intuitive calling to something greater that I couldn't perceive with my present awareness and my present life circumstances and who I thought I was and what I thought life was about. But I felt this deeper calling and following that voice changed my life forever. Obviously, the universe met me where my soul was being called when i took action toward it.
The Universe is on your side. That fear and discomfort you feel is felt because you've never stepped out of the box far enough.
Most people deny themselves the gift of finding out how powerful they are and what they're really capable of and how good life could be because they always sequester. And they always retreat in the face of fear and opposition. When you do this, you deprive yourself of the true fulfillment of the human journey and the human experience, which is to discover how powerful you are. You are a spiritual being living a physical experience.
The Universe gives you ideas all the time. Those little pulls in certain directions that you turn down , are messages from God. It's the universe. If you don't execute on the feeling, then the universe will just give the idea and inspiration to someone else.
So it gives it to a bunch of people and it says, let's see who let's see who executes first. Then it says, ok. I'll help that person. And this one person goes, Oh, I'll do it. And they go run out. They face their fears. They do all these things and the universe keeps showing up synchronicity after synchronicity, after synchronicity. That's what happened to me. Once I started listening and following my spirit instead of other people, the universe showed up for me in powerful ways.
The same is possible for you. It's about committing. Committing to this as your new truth and committing in taking action steps daily to get closer to your goal. If you haven't already, make sure to download and use my free success hypnosis. This is a tool you can use daily to wire yourself for opportunities and incomes that align with your desires.