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How To Stop People Pleasing And Just Be Happy


Have you ever tried really really hard to get somebody to like you or to just make them happy and then all that happened is you became really really unhappy, really really tired and then they still didn't approve of you?

People pleasing is no way to live. We live in this world with good hearted people who want to make others happy.  Whether it's your mom or dad, or it's a lover or friend, or it's a teacher or our peers, we want to make people happy.

It seems like the right thing to do, but the problem with that is if you give up what you want in order to try to conform to what somebody else wants, all you get is two people who don't get what they want.

In today's video, you'll discover why you should stop people pleasing and just be happy. 

Much Love, 

Jake

About the author

Jake Ducey is a two-time published author with Penguin/Random-House (The Purpose Principles and Profit From Happiness), a leading speaker for his generation having been featured in TEDx Youth, hired by mega organizations such as Nielsen and Accenture, and a leader who has already inspired countless thousands of young people to seek meaningful career success and to make a difference in the world.

Jake Ducey

  • Awesome thought. If only I knew what it was and how to attain it. I’m getting closer to knowing with my self work… it will come. Thank you for your inspiration.

    • My pleasure Kathy! Just know that you would not be here on earth if you were not worth all you desire 🙂

  • I LOVE you more every time I see you Jake. You’re my Hero! Thanks so much for ALL of the wonderful things you do for everyone else. This is absolutely amazingly AWESOME!

  • Badass leader, game changing ideas. I look forward to our paths crossing on this mission to inspire and wake up the world? Keep shining, keep creating, keep shattering paradigms. It’s working!!!

  • I know what you are saying man but I just can’t seem to get to that place of finding my purpose no matter what I do. Thanks for this video

    • start with the question, what do you really want in life right now Edgar? Purpose doesn’t need to be this big thing. It’s just deciding to live life on our terms, one step at a time my friend.

  • Thanks for a marvelous post! I really enjoyed reading it, you are a great author. I want to encourage that you continue your great work, have a nice afternoon!

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